Social Media and Social Anxiety Disorder

Social Media and Social Anxiety Disorder Social Anxiety Disorder Coping Print Social Media and Social Anxiety Disorder By Arlin Cuncic Arlin Cuncic, MA, is the author of Therapy in Focus: What to Expect from CBT for Social Anxiety Disorder and 7 Weeks to Reduce Anxiety. Learn about our editorial policy Arlin Cuncic Updated on January 14, 2020 Social Anxiety Disorder Overview Symptoms & Diagnosis Causes Treatment Living With In Children Social media use is becoming more commonplace, even among those with social anxiety disorder (SAD). This begs the questionâ€"are  Facebook,  Twitter,  Instagram, and other platforms helpful or not for those who live with social anxiety? The answer to this question does not appear simple and may depend on how you use those channels of communication, what role they play in your life, and perhaps even your tendency toward addiction.?? Some of the benefits and disadvantages of social media for people with social anxiety are the same as those for those without the disorder. Below is a quick comparison of how social networks might be helping, or hurting, those with SAD. Benefits Social media isnt all bad. In fact: Social networking sites may help those with social anxiety to more easily initiate and establish social connections.These sites may make it easier for some with social anxiety disorder to become involved in connecting with others, when transportation, isolation, or fear of leaving the house is an issue.Individuals may experience less anxiety when interacting online versus offline, allowing them to practice social skills in what feels to be a safer environment.??Social networking sites may provide an outlet for those with social anxiety disorder to share how they are feeling (on sites like Tumblr). Platforms that allow for anonymous blogging may allow those with social anxiety to feel less alone and look at their situation in a more light-hearted way (such as by viewing silly memes like the Socially Awkward Penguin series. Pros Easier to connect with others, especially if you fear leaving the house Safe space to practice social skills Extra support from others living with social anxiety disorder Outlet for sharing your feelings Cons Weaker friendships than those built in real-life Risk of feeling left out or inadequate Increased risk of stress, depression, and Internet addiction Potential disruptions in sleep patterns Disadvantages While there are advantages, there are a few disadvantages to consider as well. On sites such as Facebook, it is often expected that users will become friends with people that they know in real life. People with social anxiety may, therefore, have fewer connections or trouble meeting new people.?Individuals with social anxiety who have low self-esteem may express themselves in ways that are not appealing to others, making others less drawn to connecting with them.Friendships built mostly on social platforms may be weaker than those that have had a chance to develop in real life and lead to less actual bonding.Seeing all of the great things your Facebook or Twitter friends are posting about may make you feel left out or inadequate.?? Same thing for seeing how many likes or comments others get on their posts compared to your own.For those with social anxiety who feel more comfortable behind a computer screen, there may be a tendency to rely too much on social networking sites to the exclusion of trying to make real-world connections.Social networking sites may mak e you think about all the things you dont have in your life (i.e., a partner, children, job).Constant use of social networking sites may increase stressâ€"especially if you feel the need to be constantly connected to the online world.Use of social networking sites has the potential to make mental health issues worsen. If you are at risk for other issues such as depression and addiction, this can be particularly problematic.Staying up late to use social media could lead to problems falling asleepâ€"and lack of sleep may lead to worsened feelings of anxiety or even depression.Finding out  too much  about someone before meeting that person (by stalking their social networking accounts) could actually lead to increased social anxiety when you finally meet up with that person in real life. People with social anxiety disorder may be at risk for Internet addiction disorder (IA).?? In general, both positive and negative correlations were found between the use of social networking sites and mental wellness.Negative interactions and social comparisons on social networking sites were related to higher levels of anxiety.However, displays of social support and social connectedness on social networking sites were related to lower levels of anxiety. In addition, the use of social networking sites was related to lower levels of loneliness, and higher levels of self-esteem and satisfaction with life.?? 4 Surefire Signs of an Internet Addiction Findings Related to Social Anxiety Disorder Overall, the findings of the meta-analysis suggest that use of social networking sites may have both benefits and detractors for those with social anxiety disorderâ€"a lot may depend on the individuals and how the sites are used. However, a review study found that most previous research was based on self-reported data and cross-sectional (at one point in time).?? Specifically, studies suggested that: People with social anxiety disorder were more likely to engage in passive use of Facebook (looking at other peoples profiles) and less likely to engage in content production (posting, commenting, etc.).People who brood or engage in anxious rumination may be more at risk for their social anxiety becoming worse when they use Facebook passively. For example, if you sit at home all day reading other peoples Facebook posts, not posting anything of your own, not commenting on anyone elses status, your social anxiety may worsen.People may be able to tell on social networking sites that you have social anxiety because of how you interact. Examples include being relatively inactive or withdrawn in your interactions.In general, people with social anxiety are less likely to be users of Facebook but more likely to be users of micro-blogging sites such as Tumblr or Myspace. (This may be because it provides an outlet to share feelings in a non-threatening atmosphere.)People with social anxiety do not appear to be more likely to post negative content on social networking sites. However, whether you post positive or negative materials relates to how others respond to you. Positive updates are related to increased likes while negative material results in lower positive feedback.People with social anxiety may receive more positive supportive comments from social networking friends and fewer negative interactions. This social support may play a protective role if you have high levels of social anxiety, leading to greater feelings of well-being. Where to Find Support Groups for Social Anxiety Disorder Research on Social Media  Use and Mental Disorders A meta-analysis of studies about social networking sites and mental illness was conducted between 2005 and 2016.?? More research needs to be conducted using real-time data (people reporting on their actual social networking behavior over a period of time). 10 Tips for Smart Social Media Use When You Have SAD Be mindful of the tone of what you share or comment. Staying positive and open is more likely to encourage others to interact with you than negativity or complaints. Balance time that you spend online with time spent in real-world connections. Or, use the time that you connect online to plan events in the real world. Practice mindfulness to become aware of your surroundings to prevent social networking from swallowing up your whole day.?? Sign up for meetup groups or join groups with people who have similar interests or hobbies to yours. This can be particularly helpful if you have a very limited social circle in real life and want to use social networking to increase your connections. Remember that what you see on social networking sites is not necessarily a true representation of the lives of people you know. Some people only share the positive, others may only share the negativeâ€"try not to compare or think about what others have that you dont. Use other peoples social media profiles to get to know people ahead of meeting them, when they are on their way to becoming your friend. At the same time, dont obsess or spend too much time doing this, or it may backfire. If you are going to use social networking sites, try not to be a passive user. Dont spend hours looking over other peoples posts without sharing anything about yourself. Take advantage of the extra social support you may receive from your friends on social networking sites. Particularly if you have higher levels of social anxiety, this support may help to improve your feelings of well-being. Moderate your use. Use social networking as a reward for getting other things done in the real world, to prevent yourself from falling into an addictive pattern. Have a detached relationship to social networking. Recognize its strengths and weaknesses and never rely on it as your only means of communication. A Word From Verywell Think about how social media  has served you so far. Do you feel more connected as a result of your time spent online, or less connected? Make a list of three steps you can take toward positive change. Yours will be different, but an example might be the following: Only check social networking sites twice per day.Share something positive or leave a positive comment at least once per week.Join a group with like interests that have regular meetups in the real world. The 8 Best Online Therapy Programs